Where is the value of each person in life? Certainly
not the appearance shown with clothes, hats, shoes... Because no matter how
gorgeous, classy and luxurious the appearance is, it can't your true inner
self.
1. Everyone has the right to aspire to a full life
There are very few people who are born "at the
finish line", already "winners". Therefore, many of us have also
dreamed of being rich, beautiful and gorgeous like the role model that we
idolize. Above all, we always wish we would go from "Cinderella" to
"princess", from a "shepherd boy" to a "prince"
who has everything.
When we get what we want, surely the feeling at that
time will be satisfaction and joy. However, with a flashy, beautiful and
splendid appearance, it only attracts curious and jealous eyes. After that,
people will gradually forget how beautiful you used to be, how rich you used to
be. Then, you will still be lonely, lost, live in self-doubt and crave
attention again.
Taking care of the outside, beautifying yourself is not
bad, in fact it is also a very necessary job. However, you should never
misunderstand your outer beauty and your true inner worth. It is not possible
to take the outside form as a measure to evaluate the value of each person in
life.
2. What is the value of each person in life?
The true value of each person in life does not lie in
how many wardrobes you own, how many pairs of shoes and handbags you have, how
big and beautiful your house is, how good your car is... talking about the
value of money in life, you have better economic conditions than others.
In short, the external luxuries only help you satisfy
the living needs of life, but it can't tell people who you are, how valuable
you are in life.
The value of each person lies in the degree?
There are many people who believe that the true value
of a person lies in the degrees and certificates that he or she receives.
However, in fact, this is still not the value of a person in life. A degree
only proves how you have studied and cultivated in school. Even a degree does
not show the experience and results of the work you undertake.
On the contrary, those who do not go to school, do not
have any qualifications, sometimes succeed in many fields, making others
respect. Therefore, a degree does not really say a person's worth.
Power creates value for people?
There are many people who believe that the value of
each person in life lies in their position and power. If at first glance, one
can see that the powerful will have a voice, be "welcome", be treated
kindly and no one dares to offend.
However, power is something very frivolous, because
today you hold all power in your hands. But it is not certain that tomorrow,
the day after tomorrow or some time later you will still retain your power.
If you think that a person's value in society lies in
power. So when a person runs out of power, that means their value is also gone?
Value of a person by comments, judgments from others?
You can also assume that a person's value in life is
based on judgments and comments from those around them. However, this is not
entirely true, for those who love you, have sympathy for you, they will
evaluate you in a positive way. On the contrary, if you made them feel
unapproachable in the first place, their judgment about you will be harsh.
Therefore, compliments and criticisms from people are not the most accurate
measure of your worth in life.
3. Where is the value of each person in life?
The value of each person in life is most evident when
you are yourself. Nothing, no one can make you change your true worth.
Your values in life lie in: Intelligence, soul,
morality, dignity, life skills, behavior, communication... Perhaps you find the
values mentioned above somewhat boring and clichéd. empty, but since forever,
it is still the most accurate measure of a person's worth.
The person who knows where your values are, cultivates
and trains which values become perfect, and maintains which core values of
yourself can only be you.
Try seriously thinking about the following issues:
- Which part of the estate I have is made by myself,
and which part is left by my parents?
- To have a degree, certificate of an achievement, how
much time and effort did you have to put in?
- Is the position and power you hold worthy or not? How
did you get where you are today?
- Have you ever helped anyone and received a suggestion
from anyone to change?
It can be said that the value of a person in life does
not form itself from birth, nor does it stay in place until you give it up.
Your self-worth in life can grow or disappear depending on your desires.
To get a better life value, you are not allowed to give up, superficially with your goals and intentions. Try to do your best for the desire to live, how to live properly so that your value is raised. Hope you soon realize your true worth!
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